Hello 2012! 2011 was a medically challenging year! On January 1, 2011 I was in the ER. I was diagnosed with a migraine, but it was unlike any other migraine I had ever had. On December 31, 2011, Josh was in the ER. There were also many trips there this year thanks to my car accident, Caleb's playground accident (neck injury), Josh's head tic thing, and Marc's many issues. I am hopeful that 2012 will include ZERO trips to the ER!
Are you curious as to why my oldest child was in the ER last night? My seafood loving...well my food loving child had a severe allergic reaction to lobster. This was not the first time he ate lobster. He was doing the "all you can eat lobster" at Pappa's at age 4. He had steak and lobster for his birthday, and again at Benihana's for my birthday. He had clams, shrimp, and muscles while at Disney world last week. Anyway, last night I was sitting in the living room while Marc, Josh, and my mom were eating lobster. Josh mentioned that his mouth always tingled when he ate lobster. I made a mental note of that, because I KNOW that is a sign of allergy. I didn't bring it up though because he has had lobster many times before. I don't think anyone else immediately caught on to that. They ate, cleaned up, and went outside for fireworks. He came inside and his eyes were watery and swollen. Initially we figured it was because the smoke of the fireworks...cause that happens. I looked at his stomach and sent him on his way. He came back in. His eyes were yuck! He couldn't breathe through his nose, and his throat was swollen. I looked at his stomach again (it was clear) and told him to stay inside for a while. He started coughing some, so I gave him a benadryl. Then I looked at his back. He was covered in hives. Marc looked. My mom looked. I mentioned that I thought he was having an allergic reaction to lobster. Marc thought it was weird, because he had never had a problem. Then I mentioned what Josh had said earlier about his mouth tingling. It clicked for Marc. He told Josh that wasn't normal. Josh just thought it was, because his mouth always tingled when he ate lobster. By this time Josh's lips were puffy and he had bumps on them. I looked at his stomach again. This time it was red with hives starting to appear. I grabbed my keys and we headed out the door to the ER. On the way there Josh started itching like mad. He said he was itchy from head to toe. He was starting to freak out too. He told me I needed to drive faster. I was going slightly over the speed limit, but being very cautious. Drunk drivers terrify me, and there are way too many drunk driving fatalities on the two roads I drive the most, especially on a holiday. We walked into the ER, and the attendant immediately took his vitals. Five minutes later they took them again. Then they took him back while I filled out paperwork. About that time the benadryl I gave him kicked in. He started clearing up some, and could breath normally. They gave him another benadryl, because I could have given him more based on his weight. The doctor did confirm it was an allergic reaction. She gave me a prescription for an epipen and steroids. I am still trying to grasp what this all means for us. I know about allergies and label reading. I know that each exposure causes a worse reaction. I know lots of stuff in my head, but this changes things. Sure, Caleb can't have soy, but if he does it won't kill him. Sometimes I let it slide. I can't let anything slide with this. Does this mean he is allergic to ALL shellfish, or just lobster? Do I really want to try and find out? I know he can still eat his favorite, salmon, but do I have to worry about cross contamination? At what point should I choose the Epipen over the benadryl? How many questions do I have to ask at restaurants? Should we even bother? This is just all so new to us. Can I still give him his omega supplements? I have lots of questions. If you have any experience with this at all, please get in touch with me.
This Epipen is now a part of our lives. I (or he) must carry this at all times, and be prepared to use it. Scary thought!
Did I mention that Josh LOVES seafood...all seafood?